Foreward

You may think that death is about lying cold on a stone floor or being lowered into the ground.  It's not.  You could be dead and not even realize it but your senses know.  Your heart knows but you go on - you continue.   This is the story of Susie Sunshine  - but it could be yours if you let the reaper catch you and marry you.

How to tell if your boyfriend is the reaper.

Does he think highly of himself?  1

Does he believe he (and possibly you included) is/are more intelligent or better than others 10

Does he come up with excuses no to keep his word - excuses that make it look like he's doing it for you. 1

Does he change his life and say you are the reason  1

Does he fear muggers as he walks through a church park  1

Does he impose on your life, follow you to work or school and offer to help out without your asking.1

Does he have claim to understand his mother's faults 20

Does he treat others badly but show you more respect 10

Does he like money and does he know how to get others to give it up willingly  20

Did his parents get divorced 10

Are either of his parents a mean person or cold  30  (sorry - boys really do inherit it)

Is he always around  10

Has he convinced you to hang around with him even though he's not your type  10

Does he come from a background where his parents told him he was better than others  10

Does part of you feel doubts about getting involved with him   20

Does he value money or things above people  20

You don't love him  40

If your man scores above 50, run fast  He might be the next serial killer.

If your man scores above 20, find a diplomatic way out.   There really is someone better out there

So what if he has convinced your parents that he is the man for you and has taken the time to arrange your wedding?  So what if he appears to worship the ground on which you walk.  So what if he's got a great career in front of him?  As soon as you are trapped, the beatings and worse will start.  They start with words and then elevate and then elevate until he is swinging baseball bats at your head and pointing knives at your throat or maybe pointing guns at your head.  Yes, he did appear to adore and worship you but it was a ploy - no matter how convincing he was.  Isn't it better to run while you still have a chance for life and a chance to find Mr. Right?

No  woman would ever marry the reaper if she saw him coming.  But he can convince most women to go against their instincts, their own interests until it's time for them to die.  Once you are in, it's too late to run.  You mother or your kids will likely die if you try. You have an out and it is to find a different Mr. Right.